Soft Life Entry Level
Get Started
$9.99/month
Monthly billing only
- First Welcome lesson only
- Daily Soft Life tips
- Private Discord
- Soft Life U Rewards Program
- Crest handkerchief
Invest in Yourself
A Softer, Smarter You Starts Here.
Choose the membership that fits your journey and get access to our full curriculum, community, events and more.
Learn
Grow
Connect
Belong
A softer you.
A brighter tomorrow.
On-Demand Courses
Exclusive Community
Live Events & Workshops
Real-World Resources
Sisterhood for Life
Memberships
Find Your Soft Life
Four levels. A more aligned you.
Every paid membership includes access to the Soft Life U Rewards Program.
Annual billing saves; Entry Level is monthly only
Soft Life U App Launch Waitlist
Applications are free while we prepare the app. Nothing is charged to apply or to wait. Membership pricing is shown for information and begins only once you are approved and invited to enroll.
Soft Life All Access
Go Deeper
$49.99/month
or $479.90/year
- Soft Life U Rewards Program
- Everything in Entry Level
- Full Soft Life U curriculum
- Weekly webinars
- Weekly private events
- Selected live events
- Crest handkerchief and T-shirt
Soft Life VIP
Elevate Further
$99.99/month
or $899.88/year
- Soft Life U Rewards Program
- Everything in All Access
- Private group chats
- Limited matches
- Exclusive live events
- Crest handkerchief, T-shirt and sweatshirt
Soft Life Privé
The Ultimate Experience
$3,000enrollment
+ $499.99/month · application only
- Soft Life U Rewards Program
- Skips the curriculum
- Immediate matchmaking after onboarding, vetting and approval
- 1-on-1 support
- All merch, including the hat, handkerchief, T-shirt and sweatshirt
How It Works
Your Membership Path
A clear path to a softer, more aligned, more connected you.
1
Choose Your Level
Pick the membership that fits your goals and season.
2
Join the Curriculum
Access courses, community, events and resources.
3
Build Your Standards
Apply what you learn, create your next level and become her.
4
Graduate into Society Standard
Unlock curated introductions, members-only events and private matchmaking.
Society Standard Begins After Graduation
Complete your membership, meet the requirements, and unlock a more curated life—including curated introductions, members-only events, and private matchmaking experiences.
Learn More
More than a membership. A movement.
Frequently Asked Questions
View AllCan I change my plan later?
Yes. You can move to a different membership level as your needs change.
Is there a free trial?
There is no free trial. Soft Life Entry Level includes the first Welcome lesson only, daily Soft Life tips, the private Discord and the Rewards Program, and is billed monthly.
What is the difference between the levels?
Entry Level includes the first Welcome lesson only, daily Soft Life tips and the private Discord — no catalogue courses. All Access adds the full curriculum, weekly webinars, weekly private events and selected live events. VIP adds private group chats, limited matches and exclusive live events. Privé skips the curriculum with immediate matchmaking and 1-on-1 support after approval.
Is Privé application-only?
Yes. Soft Life Privé requires an application and approval before enrollment.
When does matchmaking begin?
Society Standard begins after graduation. For approved Privé members, the search begins after onboarding and vetting.
It's Time
Choose Your Path
A softer you. A brighter tomorrow.