The Members-Only App
A private space for alumnae, reserved for graduates who have passed Society Standard vetting. No public profiles, no open browsing.
Graduate-Only
Society Standard begins
after graduation.
Private. Vetted. Never public.
Society Standard is the alumna side of Soft Life U: a members-only app, private events and curated introductions with vetted, relationship-minded gentlemen. It is not part of Undergraduate study and cannot be joined before conferral.
Private Events
Small, hosted gatherings — dinners, salons and chapter evenings — designed around conversation rather than spectacle.
Curated Introductions
Introductions are considered individually by our team. They are never automated, never sold and never promised.
Vetting & Safety
Identity and eligibility vetting applies on both sides, with clear conduct standards and a straightforward way to raise a concern.
Inside the App • Interactive Preview
Private by design.
Society Standard members see a small, vetted community — not an open marketplace. There is no swiping. You request an introduction, our concierge reviews it, and a match is only made when it is mutual.
Tap through the preview to see how a single curated introduction unfolds — from a Registry-verified profile to a moderated, two-sided confirmation.
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Today's Curation
Marcus, 36
Atlanta, GA
Verified
Building something lasting. Family-minded and done with games.
- Identity verified
- Background reviewed
- Eligibility confirmed
A live preview. You set the pace — every introduction is invited, reviewed and mutual.
Eligibility
- 01Completion of the Foundation Seven curriculum, assessments and capstones
- 02Graduation and conferral
- 03An active Soft Life VIP or Soft Life Privé membership
- 04Any additional Society Standard vetting requested at the time of review
Meeting these requirements makes a graduate eligible for review. It does not guarantee acceptance into Society Standard, admission to any event, an introduction, a match or a relationship.
Every Society Standard Member Was a Student First
The path begins with admissions. Applications are free and never result in a charge.