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The Gentlemen's Registry

Join the waitlist.

A separate application for relationship-minded gentlemen.

Men start on a waitlist until the first women's cohort gets closer to graduation and matchmaking opens.

Join the Waitlist
A relationship-minded gentleman in a tailored jacket

Intentional
Men Build
Brighter
Futures.

Discipline
Provision
Protection
Partnership

What you'll submit

Tell us about yourself so we can get to know you and ensure you're a great fit.

Profile Photo

A clear, recent photo of you

LinkedIn Profile

Share your LinkedIn

Career / Business Details

What you do and your path

Financial Readiness

A general overview

Lifestyle & Intentions

Your values and relationship goals

ID / Background Review

Government ID and background check

Registry standards

We carefully review every application to maintain a high standard for our community.

Identity verifiedValid government ID and background check
Financial stabilityDemonstrates financial responsibility
Relationship intentionsGenuinely seeking a committed, long-term partnership
Generous mindsetValues providing, protecting and uplifting his partner
Respectful conductKind, emotionally mature and aligned with Soft Life U values

Registry membership

The Gentlemen's Registry is separate from the women's memberships and has its own terms.

$1,000

One-time join fee

$100

Per month

Nothing is charged while you apply or wait. Fees begin only after your identity, background and profile have been reviewed and your place on the registry is approved.

How it works

A simple process designed to ensure the best experience for everyone.

  1. 1ApplySubmit your application and required details.
  2. 2ReviewOur team carefully reviews your profile and background.
  3. 3WaitlistApproved men join the waitlist until the women's cohort gets closer to graduation.
  4. 4InvitationYou'll be invited to matchmaking when the registry opens.

Why join early?

Approved men on the waitlist will be first in line when the registry opens, giving you priority access to connect with qualified, like-minded women.

The right
man changes
everything.

A glimpse inside the registry

Here's an example of a verified profile. (Details are limited for privacy.)

Example verified registry profile

Marcus T. Verified

Entrepreneur | Atlanta, GA

  • Tech & Real Estate
  • Bachelor's Degree
  • Long-term relationship
  • Atlanta, GA
“I'm looking for a kind, ambitious woman to build a beautiful life with.”
Apply for the Waitlist

You'll be notified when the registry opens.