Terms of Service

Eligibility

This website and all Soft Life U programs are intended for adults aged 18 and older. By applying, you confirm that you are at least 18.

Accurate Information and Conduct

You agree to provide accurate information in your application and in any message you send us, and to upload only photographs of yourself that you have the right to share. You agree not to misuse this site, attempt to access records that are not yours, or behave abusively toward our staff, students or alumnae. We may decline or withdraw access where these expectations are not met.

Nature of the Institution

Soft Life U is a private educational and finishing program. It is not an accredited college or university, and it does not grant academic degrees or academic credit. “Graduation” and “conferral” refer to completion of our own curriculum requirements.

Pricing and Payment

Published pricing is $9.99 per month for Soft Life Entry Level, which is billed monthly only; $49.99 per month or $479.90 per year for Soft Life All Access; $99.99 per month or $899.88 per year for Soft Life VIP; and a $3,000 enrollment plus $499.99 per month, or $3,599.93 per year, for Soft Life Privé, which is available by application only. Gentlemen’s Registry membership is a one-time $1,000 join fee plus $100 per month. There is no application fee, and submitting an application never results in a charge.

Secure checkout is not yet connected. When it opens, the full billing terms — amount, billing frequency, renewal and how to cancel — will be presented to you before any payment is taken. Nothing on this site currently constitutes a purchase, enrollment, reservation or charge.

Curriculum and Graduation

Undergraduate students study the Foundation Seven curriculum and must complete its assessments and capstones to be eligible for graduation and conferral. Course content is published in stages and becomes available to enrolled students inside the Digital Campus as it is released.

Alumna Membership and Society Standard

Society Standard — including its members-only app, private events and curated introductions — is reserved for graduates at the Soft Life VIP and Soft Life Privé levels and requires additional vetting. Soft Life Privé members may begin matchmaking immediately without completing the curriculum, after onboarding, identity verification and approval; it does not guarantee a match.

No Guarantees

We do not guarantee acceptance into Society Standard, access to any particular event, an introduction, a match, a relationship, or any personal, social or financial outcome. Introductions are considered individually and are never promised or sold.

Intellectual Property

The Soft Life U name, crest, course materials, written content and site design are owned by Soft Life U. You may not copy, redistribute, resell or publish them without our written permission.

Accounts and Campus Access

When the student campus launches, you will be responsible for keeping your login credentials confidential and for activity that occurs under your account. Access is personal to you and may not be shared.

Limitation of Liability

The site and its educational content are provided on an “as is” basis. To the fullest extent permitted by law, Soft Life U is not liable for indirect or consequential losses arising from your use of the site or its programs.

Changes to These Terms

We may update these terms as the university's services change, including when payments and the student campus launch. Updates will be posted on this page.

Contact

Questions about these terms can be sent through the contact form.